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5 Secrets of Positive Masculinity For Young Men And How to Distinguish From False Narratives
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When prompting ChatGPT or doing a simple Google search about the term positive masculinity, what immediately pops up is this:
1) Note how, in the very first sentence, positive masculinity has been framed as a character strength that, according to the author, “any gender” might have
2) The author is in fact a female; her name is Dr. Gill Harrop, and she then continues to explain to us what, in her opinion, positive masculinity ought to look like.
This is like asking a cuttlefish how to ride a bicycle. The absurdity cannot be overstated.
Imagine for a second if a man lectured women in general about what feminity ought to look like and how females ought to behave.
What do you think her response would be?
3) Later in her article, she references the White Ribbon Campaign, which has been outed numerous times as a huge man-hating bigotry campaign, most famously criticized by Erin Pizzey, founder of the first and largest domestic violence shelter for women in the UK, who was ostracized and forced to leave the UK due to her controversial research findings and subsequent threats from militant feminists.
This is just one illustration of many; however, it demonstrates how the woke mind virus and their cult members have completely hijacked the term “positive masculinity” at universities and all over the world, but primarily in Western Countries
- “Be careful what you read, for you will be responsible for it.”?—?Mark Twain, American author
The purpose of this essay is to point you towards the truth about positive masculinity among men who actually have a track record in this field, besides the fact that they are also masculine.
We will examine the origins of that term and how it relates to the Red Pill community.
We come from our own mental point of origin, as opposed to somebody else’s.
Here are the five secrets and cornerstones of positive masculinity:
1) Self-Mastery
To be honest, we all sucked at this at first.
Of course, self-mastery is a lifelong journey, and progress can only be made with patience, compassion, and an understanding of one’s own limitations and weaknesses.
It entails taking personal responsibility seriously and becoming the captain of one’s own ship by consistently practicing discipline, drive, focus, and ambition to achieve one’s life’s sole purpose.
Whatever it may be, it entails learning to delay gratification with moderation and control over impulses.
It’s knowing where you are, where you want to go, and how you’ll be able to get there.
“Mastering self-control is the key to self-mastery. Rather than succumb to transient feelings, desires and emotions of the moment, men must develop the ability to delay gratification and temper their impulses.”
(Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male)
“Self Mastery and Control” by Firefly AI
2) Find your Purpose
Some men know this from a young age; those fortunate ones I do envy.
No amount of effort or discipline can compensate for a lack of clarity with respect to our unique purpose.
Men have a mission to accomplish. We start by taking control of ourselves and then seek out the world to do our duty. That’s what makes us men: we fight, we struggle,
and then we fucking conquer.
I thought I had found mine.
I thought I was revolutionizing the world with nanotechnology, and I continued to believe so for over 12 years until I realized I was not.
I failed, and I crashed and burned.
Then, after 21 years of living in Mexico, a foreign country to me when I got there when I was only 19,
I came back and sought it out again to find purpose.
I am wondering if I have found it now by writing about my life and doing photography as a form of meditation, but I guess I’ll find out.
What you can’t do is give up on yourself; you must keep on going or die trying.
3) Integrity
Men of honor are upheld for a reason.
Honesty, straightforwardness, and being upright are masculine traits. We do not apply these standards to women in the same way.
Women often get away with things that men would be punished for.
We excuse women for bad behavior, but we rarely do the same for men.
“Stand Up Straight with Your Shoulders Back” is the physical embodiment of that value and principle
“Tell the truth?—?or, at least, don’t lie.”
Jordan B. Peterson.
Standing tall is an act of courage, projecting strength even when you feel vulnerable.
It’s not about pretending, but about believing in yourself so others can too.
Even when it has bad consequences, it is still the best option, and women seek safety in males they can depend on when the shit hits the fan.
4) Become a leader
The mainstream media and the current cultural narrative around feminist ideas don’t like the idea of men being portrayed as natural leaders.
Let me break it to you; that is, of course, BS.
Women will tell you that they want an open, sensitive, and emotional man, but then turn around and hook up with the dominant “bad guy” who is emotionally detached, stoic, and just “gets it.”
In short, men who know their worth and have their act together
“Alpha fucks, Beta bucks.”?—?Rollo Tomassi
What’s worth mentioning here is that you don’t necessarily need to have a huge social media following to become a leader in whatever field you might have achieved mastery in.
Leadership is a mindset that embodies an attitude of taking on challenges as they arise and progressing in the right direction.
It is about taking risks, walking the road less traveled, and doing things that might appear uncomfortable to others.
Becoming a leader is about developing your own vision of things and your unique lifestyle built around your values and goals.
“Be the hero of your journey” by Firefly AI
5) Be the hero of your own journey
Take on new challenges, expand your comfort zone, embrace the unknown, and step out of your bubble of nonexistent perceived security.
Security is an illusion; it does not exist. It can all be gone in a second.
We have a problem in our society, and it is exactly the opposite of what is being told.
We need more masculine men who want to become heroes, not only for themselves but for their families too.
Once again, feminists hate this because it runs contrary to their fantasy world of egalitarian gender unicorns with men who sit at home washing the dishes while she can pursue her career, as if there was no biological clock for women.
Housewives, who make up over half of the adult female population, are dependent on their husbands for their living expenses. This dependence forces them to engage in their own exploitation. Betty Friedan, American feminist
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