4 Timeless Lessons Young Men and Gen Z can learn from Balinese Tradition

In the age of moral relativism, nihilism, and a lack of values and truth, it makes sense to look out for guidance in a chaotic world.

Bali is a special place. Everyone who knows the island will agree on that. It isn’t disputed at all.

Now, when it comes to why Bali is so special, we´re headed into more fuzzy territory

The thing is, we all perceive things in a different way, but I think it is also fair to say that culture makes up a big chunk of how we see the world.

It is how humans interact with the world and with each other.

Culture is always unique and specific to a geographical location.

In my last few posts, I have been very clear about what I think about Gen Z. If you haven´t read it, I will just say here that it isn’t very positive.

So here are four timeless lessons I have learned in Bali that I believe the younger western generation could learn from

Lesson I: Balinese people share a deep respect for elders

1. When an elder is present, it is considered polite to bow slightly or touch the back of their hand to their forehead as a greeting.
2. This gesture, known as “sungkem,” is a way of seeking blessings and showing humility.
3. The Balinese language also shows how much respect people have for older people. To address an elder with respect, you use a certain title, like “Pak” for men and “Ibu” for women. When showing respect for an elder, these titles are always used with their name.
4. People often ask elders for guidance and assistance on important issues that affect both the individual and the community. Their thoughts are very important, and the choices they make are important.
5. Elderly people are treated with the utmost respect in families. They are usually in charge of their own homes and make decisions about family issues and traditions. From a very young age, kids learn to respect their elders and do what they say.
6. Elders often play important roles within their communities, serving as leaders, mentors, and spiritual guides. Their wisdom and experience are sought after, and they are respected for their contributions to the community’s well-being.

We have far too many brainwashed young people who just finished school with pink hair and a rebellious attitude who think they are smart and want to lecture the rest of us about their particular views on things.

Wisdom comes from experience. Honor it.

Lesson II: Balinese Rituals and Self-Discipline

In Bali, it is very common to see public ceremonies held on the street. When that happens, everyone needs to stop and patiently wait for the ceremony to end.

I have had numerous encounters on my scooter where traffic stood still for over an hour.

1. Self-discipline is not just a way to get something done in Balinese culture; it is a sacred practice that builds spiritual growth, inner strength, and resilience. Young men learn to be self-disciplined with purpose and respect, seeing it as a way to honor their goals and themselves.
2. Rituals play a significant role in Balinese life, serving as a bridge between the mundane and the sacred. Young men can learn to incorporate rituals into their daily lives to enhance focus, cultivate mindfulness, and connect with their inner selves.
3. Structure and routine are important in Balinese culture because they help people be self-disciplined and reach their long-term goals. Teenage boys can learn to use routines and schedules that are in line with their values and goals to help them grow as people.

At first glance, to us westerners, it is almost bewildering and strange to see how much time and effort Balinese people put into certain rituals.

An example for this is called Canang sari

Canang sari are the gifts that people put in front of doors in Bali. They are small baskets made from palm leaves that are woven together and filled with flowers, incense, and other gifts.

It is a daily way to show thanks to the gods and keep the spiritual world in balance.

Usually, they are put in front of doors, temples, and other holy places.

But also in hotels, and at my hotels, I would usually get it twice a day in the morning and evening.

Lesson III: The Balinese Perspective on Work-Life Balance

You can tell the moment you arrive in Bali that the time ticks differently here.

Even though there are also quite a lot of places where it is crowded and bustling with life, mostly in tourist areas, there is still a sense of tranquility and calmness admitst all of it

Here are a few differences between Western cultures and Balinese:

1. Focus on Holistic Well-being: In Balinese culture, work-life balance isn’t just about managing time and commitments; it’s also about taking care of your physical, mental, spiritual, and social well-being as a whole.
2. Respect for Natural Rhythms: People in Bali put a lot of value on living in harmony with the rhythms of nature. They place a high value on rest, relaxation, and being close to nature because they know these are important parts of a healthy life.
3. Family and community as pillars: In Balinese culture, strong family and community ties are very important. These connections give people support, direction, and a sense of belonging, which is good for their overall health and work-life balance.

Elderly man working?—?by Roman L Binder?—?check more of my gallery here

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There is a lot to learn from around the world, and not all cultures are equal.

In 10 days, I will be in Sri Lanka, and I would love to have you with me on my Uncharted Road Newsletter for young men who seek inspiration and personal growth.