3 Reasons why we need to teach young men how to walk away

Today I came across a YouTube video about why men walk away and I was shocked.

I thought I had seen it all, but that one left me speechless and honestly agitated. I was angry.

The recent rise of long-form dating podcasts, Whatever and Fresh N´Fit being at the forefront, is a phenomenon whose impact on society is just unfolding, and we don´t really know how it will end up but I think it is fair to say that a huge number of young men are getting red-pilled at scale as we speak.

The infamous episode I am talking about is this one.

Until I watched it, I thought that the worst thing that a man can do to himself is become a “simp.”

Boy, was I wrong!

It turns out that there is a whole category of self-loathing men called “pay pigs.”

In short, a pay pig is a man who pays a woman without getting anything in return. “Pay pigs” are drawn to the idea of women degrading them.

There is nothing new about men paying women and women extracting resources from men.

What is new is the extent to which this can now happen due to social media, OnlyFans, and a feminist society that applauds women to do so.

Let me be clear: this is not only tolerated; it is actively promoted and well received. Millions of women right now are choosing this as a viable career path, which is why there are now more women on OnlyFans than there are teachers in the US.

But they are being lied to, because what they are not being told is that most men don´t want to commit to women with a promiscuous past and they will have to live with the consequences of showing their naked bodies on the internet forever.

If one thing becomes obvious when seeing these women talk, it is that there is no shame involved.

I believe the reason for this is sinister: we have created a generation of women (and men) that have been told that men in general are trash. Let me be specific here.

When talking to feminists, one of the many cognitive dissonances I have noticed is that although not all openly say they hate men, a lot of them do.

They think it is okay to hate men in general since they do not do it to their brothers or fathers, or at least not consciously.

This is the only plausible way you can actively engage in such behavior without feelings of guilt and shame, regardless of which side you are on.

At one point, one of the girls confesses to having taken seven figures.

Now let me ask you: Are you surprised to hear that last year was the highest suicide rate ever recorded among men?

I want to be clear, although I believe all of this behavior on behalf of these women is dispicable. It is also true that men are entirely responsible for it.

At the end of the day, it is your choice whether you want to hand over your balls on a silver plate or not.

Recent studies show that one of the leading factors contributing to the deterioration of men’s mental health is a lack of purpose and resilience.

I have been thinking a lot about how to help young men overcome their struggles, and of course, the first thing is to become aware of the problem.

We need to become more comfortable asking the following question:

How does all of this affect men?

If we do that, we can come up with some valuable advice for young men to regain their power. There is, of course, a lot of great advice on many topics around becoming successful as entrepreneurs, because what is true for women is also true for men.

The internet and the rise of social media offer unique opportunities for everyone.

But I think we would be surprised at how many men want to become successful, not for the sake of money or even status but simply because they want to be able to attract high-value females.

And there is not so much advice integrating all of these aspects.

Busyness on Sukhumvit, Bangkok 2022, by Roman L Binder

Here are three reasons why walking away is a man’s most potent weapon.

Women in their 20s always have a competitive advantage in the sexual marketplace.

This has been true forever: women between the ages of 20 and 24 are at their peak in the sexual marketplace.

Men are made, and women are born. That means a man needs to prioritize his personal growth over anything else. Men peak around 35 to 40 years old on the sexual marketplace, which is why men walk away when they are young to get experience before anything else. It is because it is a reasonable thing to do.

Ignore women and people trying to shame you for your preferences; just walk away.

Replace, don´t chase

As mentioned with social media, even average-looking women have immense power and reach

Only two decades ago, women’s sexual strategies were pretty much bound to their home town, whereas now any average-looking woman can advertise her sexuality openly on Instagram and Tinder. The amount of attention women get on these apps and the opportunities that arise for them to slip into the DMs of even celebrities are insane. Men cannot compete and are literally commoditized, meaning that women have an unlimited, cheap attention supply.

The solution is to give them only attention when they have actually earned it or deserve it and to walk away.

Become unavailable and show some self-respect.

Become not only financially but also geographically independent

The internet is evolving at a mind-boggling speed and the creator economy is the fastest-growing economy

That means if your goal is to become an independent and successful young man, now is the best time.

Building a personal brand and turning yourself into a niche and “the product” is the most intelligent decision you can make. Nobody can compete with you for being you.

Develop an ambitious vision for yourself, travel, and double down on the path of self-improvement.

Understand that you are the biggest obstacle.

“The obstacle is the way”?—?Ryan Holiday

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All of this led me to go on a different path.

I call it The Uncharted Road Newsletter For Unapologetic Single Men Who Want True Freedom and Walk Away

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